za austinjames2813 :Oh don't do it on a monday, as in you didnt work yesterday. As well at some point you will have to ask her out for coffee after work; best you take it slow. But if you have the patients of a flea, as i suspect will happen, because you are lingering and co-workers starting to murmur and point. You are going to go for it, and say hey could i take you to lunch today i know this quiet little spot,, buzzzzzz, you lose. The day after a weekend is, girls lunch day so that they can talk about whether any one got 'any' and how was the person etc. And now buzzzzz She will be asking about you. So, be confident, not pushy, desperate, and creepy. Which also means dont go back to yiur cubical and google her for the 10 millionth time. Just ask 'would you like to get lunch together one day this week, ( then give a slight pause, while she thinks about you..) then add ' or next, you probably have stuff this week.' Thats it , close your pie hole. Now one of 2 things will happen, she will either say, i think next tuesday or wednesday, thursday. Mondays and fridays arent going to happen. Now if she hesitates more than 3 seconds after you add the second part, it's game time. Because the next words out of her mouth will be......